SEXUAL TRANSPARENCY #Repost for new Followers
This means that u hide nothing from your intimate partners.
By being transparent in your sexual and loving relationships your partners can make informed decisions, be in empathy (walk in your shoes) & compassion with you and experience deep intimacy.
You may think to yourself that you could never really reveal everything to your partner, especially when it comes to how you feel about sex.
Many women fake orgasms, many men lie about their sexual confidence. This doesn't help anyone to have better sexual experiences or deep loving relationships.
We are afraid to really be seen, but at the same time we all desire it. You may withhold information, or you may flat out lie.
Are you afraid of being rejected?
Are you afraid that telling your partner the truth will hurt them?
It's all okay, you can be transparent about your fear too.
Transparency allows couples to love and thrive in relationships. When we are vulnerable to one another and really share what is going on, a new level of trust can be reached. Trust is fundamental to deep pleasure and orgasm.
Transparency in our sexual relationships is hard sometimes. That is why it is an ongoing practice.
START RIGHT NOW,
What is something that you are afraid to admit to yourself when it comes to your sexual pleasure?
What is something that you have been withholding from your partner about sex?
Can you communicate this to your partner?
Here's an example of Sexual Transparency: "I have something that I want to talk to you about, but I am afraid that if I share it with you, you won't love me anymore." [After partner has asked you to continue] "I often feel that when you make love to me it is over just as I am getting going. I would like for you to slow down a bit.
Maybe we could do some massage and more kissing?
I feel sad that I waited so long to talk to you about this." Notice in the example above that you are sharing what you feel. You are honest about your feelings.
ALSO NOTE, that you do not blame the other person, but instead you make a request and then share your feelings again.. TRY IT!!! #TheSexTherapist
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