@winjafairy Gooooood moooorning!!!! This!
@Regrann from @lalalaletmeexplainblog - Erm, I don't want this thank you very much. I've seen this piece of bullshit floating around on insta and it's annoying me. This notion that if you want a man to marry you then you need to stick around through whatever shit he throws at you is literally ridiculous. All this crap about being a 'rider' is stupid as fuck. A relationship is always going to be bumpy, relationships have down times, but you should not feel like you are on a terrifying white knuckle ride at a theme park, your relationship should not be a frightening rollercoaster where you are praying for it to end quickly so you can both get off and live happily ever after. We should not be taking on men who have not got their shit together yet in the hope that we can reform them. We are not carers or support workers, or an extension of their Mothers. Men who haven't got partying, crime and wild behaviour out of their systems should not be getting into relationships and we certainly should not be overlooking their misdeameanours because we believe that we have to prove our loyalty in order for them to one day commit fully to us. Leaving a man who is behaving like Gucci did for all those years doesn't mean that you are disloyal or that you are going to miss out on having him when he does finally change, it means you are wise enough to put yourself first and to know that you are not responsible for supporting a man who is struggling at managing his own life. Sticking around with a man who endlessly cheats and is in and out of prison doesn't make you loyal or a better woman, it makes you stupid, because you're not being loyal to yourself. This is not goals ffs. And if you think it is then you've probably been brainwashed by a fuckboy. Not here to judge but bottom fucking line, LOVE YOURSELF ❤️☝🏼 1st
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