When you get to an understanding that the stuff you are going through is not meant to stop you, but to grow you, you will go at these challenges differently. And because you go at them differently, you will affect the outcome differently. So when you are all in your feelings about something that someone has done or said to question your worth, and you remember that how you react to said untruths will determine how you come out on the other side, you will begin to handle these disturbances much differently. It is then, that you will change the game. And thereby change your life.