Ok, serious moment. If you know me well you know that domestic abuse is an issue close to my heart. So, I'm just going to say this: Real men don't use violence, intimidation or emotional abuse to control their relationships. These are the traits of a little boy who can't control his own life so he takes it out on those around him. If this is you do the world a favor, go dig a hole and bury yourself in it. I was going to be meaner but I'll stay PG. You may feel weak but within you is the strength to leave. The strength to overcome. And the strength to achieve what you deserve.