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So Evie was incredible at sports day. Supportive of all her team, cheered for other teams - and then crashed into my arms from exhaustion at the end. Evie’s got some legs on her! Who knew?! All the kids were ace and it was set up brilliantly👌🏻BUT one of the mothers (I wish I never had to see her again), past comment on the fact I look like a man with ‘all those muscles’, under her breath which, she suddenly realised, I’d heard. Now, I am not overly muscly but I have lost quite a bit of a weight which obviously shows tone (sometimes 🤣). The thing that gets me is the incessant need to comment on someone else’s appearance. I would never dream of rebutting her comments with; ‘well, I think you look like ‘x’.’ I actually left the ground feeling horrible about myself and wanting to cover up. This is completely unacceptable. a) because she thought it was OK to say that and b) because I allowed it to affect me. I am only human. I work hard to keep well for myself and for my family. How I look, may not be your cup of tea but I’m equally not willing to look like or try to look like you. It is never OK to make another person feel bad. Equally - I need to toughen up. I know my worth. Mothers - women - do yourselves a favour. Be kind. Always. The rest will fall in your lap. #somemothers #privateschoolmum #nasty #iallowedit #pma #positivitycatches #iamme #cantbeuyou #dontwanttobeyou #happyinmyskin #bekind #kind #care #keepyourmouthshut #yourvibeattractsyourtribe #bodyimagemovement #bodyimage #bodyimagemovementambassador #crossfit #mums #workhard #alwaysbekind #toomuscly #britishweightlifting #itrainformyhealth #whatlupus #thisiswhatlupuslookslike #nonegativityhere

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