DON’T EVER LET SOMEONES OPINION OF YOU BECOME YOUR REALITY.
I need to say this and I’m very serious about this statement.
People can be very cruel and often at times don’t even realize how harsh their words can be.
I’ve had many people mock me, make fun of me, laugh behind my back, chuckle, make rude comments and single handedly try to bring me down daily when I first decided to go against the norm and build a very unconventional business.
It still happens today but maybe not as much.
But it’s happening a lot lately to new team members on our team.
This is the thing.
People are quick to criticize others on something they have zero success in and credible knowledge about.
But unfortunately this happens every single day. People’s own negative opinions that are perceived based off their own reality does NOT mean it needs to be yours.
People will try to bring people down and I’m here to tell you don’t let them get to you.
Haters will hate. The struggles they are dealing with are taken out on you. It’s not you. It’s them.
I always say bless and release. I pray for those so they can feel better.
But here is my truth. If I let the nay sayers become my reality then:
Kristen wouldn’t of been able to leave her full time teaching career to be home with our girls.
We would still be 6 figures in debt.
I wouldn’t be looking at retirement in the foreseeable future.
We wouldn’t of traveled the world on some awesome vacations.
We wouldn’t of met some of the most positive people in our life.
We wouldn’t be able to pay cash for the multiple vacations we took our girls on.
We would still have two car payments.
We would still have student loans.
We wouldn’t be putting money away monthly for our daughters college.
So in the end you do you! If you have that vision then put in the work and don’t let the negative noise get to you.
It will be there. But you have a choice on how to proceed. Success has a price.
But in this case I recommend you bless and release.
Keep moving forward. This is your life. Your journey. Your goals. Your dreams. Be you. #beyourselfalways #ownit #haterswillhate #motivateyourself