This is the most important thing to remember. Your inner self talk should be the same as how you talk to someone you love, not someone you talk down to. Learning to love YOU is the hardest thing you will do in your life, simply because you cannot lie to yourself. You will mess up, you will make bad decisions, and you will let yourself down. Make the decision now that you will forgive yourself for all these things. You are the one who can counter these mishaps with positive actions. It is so true that what we are capable of is incredible, what most people actually do is disappointing. Love yourself and you will radiate positive energy. Tag a friend who needs to remember this!