Im a big believer in taking everything we go through in life as a lesson, not a burden. Literally every single thing that happens to me good or bad I think ... "okay so what's to learn here" and sometimes it's hard and confusing to think about positively, I get it I do but it takes practise and makes life a little bit better every time.
In the last month and a half, it's been happening. I got into a car accident, I got my wallet stolen, things kept happening that were just like "DUDE... really?" And today my phone screen shattered (let's LOL for a second here). Got me thinking... all these things seem to be materialistic. All things that realistically don't really matter. Is it the end of the world ? No. Will I die if I don't have it? No. Are they replaceable? Very much so. Even within encounters with people in my life, things kept "shifting" and disconnecting and I just couldn't understand until I decided to let things go & be as is. And that really changed the way I thought about all these "misfortunates" which I'm glad to say aren't misfortunes because they've opened my eyes to a lot more than I expected.
All that to say is, when things happen that you can't seem to put you're finger on the "why", just let them be. Take life as lightly as you can. It's all an illusion at the end of the day and how you live within right now regardless of the outside bs is what will bring your quality of life to another level ✨