LITTLE THINGS THAT MATTER 2 "Treat me as I am and that's just where I will stay. Treat me as if I were what I could be and that's what I'll become." There is usually a temptation we all face to change our partner. Men have their idea of what they want their ideal woman to be, when they can't find all specifications, and finally settles with one who fits in to an extent, the next temptation could be to try to make them conform to the their idea of their perfect lady.
While this may not play out strongly for guys who are predominantly sanguine and phlegmatic, it is most likely to occur with choleric and melancholic partners.
Similar, women also try to do same. For them, it is even more detailed, they have from childhood learnt how to nurture dolls as their children, they are the faithful subscribers of soap operas and other love materials.
They attend marriage seminars and trainings the more and possess more thorough knowledge of what a real premarital or marital relationship should be. So it becomes more frustrating when their guy is not fitting into the man of their fantasy.
Remember, you can't have it all and though relationships are meant to make its members better, there also has to be an accompanying patience until the differences starts manifesting.
Last week on Heart Gist I shared with you simple but amazing ways to show your affection to your lady. Because of the length of the list, I promised to continue today.
Hi guys, while you make spiritual, emotional and financial investments to see some positive changes in your relationship, I believe the following will help you spice things a bit. Just like last week's list, I will list them in the ladies voice, so match with corresponding action.
1. I love a man who love to give gifts
2. I love a man who laughs at my joke (encourage her ministry biko, just laugh even when the joke is not really funny)
3. I love a man who can be spontaneous ....The list continues in the next post
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