I was always the single girlfriend in the group. Sure there were guys who came into my life but none of them ever stuck around.
I would always say that I would never find the right guy, that I always picked losers, I planned with my best friend that if we were both single by a certain age we'd marry each other, I would say how the man I was meant to be with did not live in my home town (that was partly true 😝) The thing is by saying stuff like that, you are actually putting up walls and blocking your chance of finding the love you long for! All of those things, become your reality!
Another thing we believe will help is if we write out a checklist of all the things this "dream man" has to have. 🙈 But you get so focussed on that list that you ignore the attention from the men who actually may be the more perfect fit for you! I had a list too want to know what was on it?
He had to be Italian, have blue eyes, have a ripped 6 pack, big muscles, hoping for doctor naturally 💁🏻 of course there were other emotional qualities on the list but I want to highlight those ones for a reason. I have been told my whole life from my nonna "marry a rich Italian man." I always laughed it off but look at what my main search qualities were?!?! The reason I never found that man is because he was NOT my MY MAN 🙌🏼 Think about it, are you writing your checklist based on the man your parents or family want you to be with? What you THINK would be a "good man?" It hit me like a kick in the chest when I realized this just the other day! News flash I did find that body builder Italian boy and he hurt me more than any person who has ever come into my life! 🙅🏻 And after that incident I changed my list. I would lie in bed crying almost every night and I would just keep saying over and over again "I just want someone to love and someone who love ME and treats me the way I finally deserve to be treated." 🙏🏼🙌🏼❤️ 4 months later my Mikey came back into my life and my whole world got flipped right side up 🤗 It is possible, he is out there ladies.
Un-fuck yourself and throw the checklist away😘✌🏼️