You can literally ask who's it is, where you can put it, what you can have permission to do when you *love* 👀 and it can be a great time had by all. (bonus points if you understand some basic things about anatomy 👀👀👀). Not complicated. 😎
Ask. Dont pressure/coerce/guilt/lie/gaslight. Wait for an answer. Proceed according to the response. Pay attention to changes. Be comfortable with stopping. Do stop if the mood changes, if someone says NO, or if enthusiastic response disappears, etc. Do not be an asshole. Do this everytime.
#consentismando #orgouseyourhando #consentiseverything #greenlight #whenwe #notperfect #butagoodillustration