Letting go is one of the hardest things you will ever do in your life. Holding on is easy. All we ha e to do is put on a facade for the outside world that everything is perfect. When we need the world to see a specific image, that is what we show them. We learned that at a young age, right? What's that old saying? "Fake it till you make it"? So, if you have to, fake it ... period. Some of us are raised to NEVER let a marriage go. We do not know why it got to the point it is in. We have no clue why it looked fine on the surface but, beneath the surface, it is crumbling. Your other half is being pursued by someone you thought would never betray you. Your family is crumbling at the loss of the Patrairch. You have no idea what step is next. Well, what is next is to remove the negativity from your life. The job that runs you ragged. The people you thought you could trust, the family that never seems to understand that your choices and hardworking have gotten you to where you are. But letting go of these #negative people is essential to releasing the hold that is on your heart and mind.
I am currently working on releasing myself from the strains of an abusive father who came back to my life two 3 years ago. I have not forgotten what he has done in my past. But, I thought the #forgiveness was #enough. It has not worked. I am working through it still. The abuse was 28 years ago.
But, #lettinggo #walkaway #breatheyourownair #focusonyou & your own health until you can focus on getting the outside relationships repaired. But, letting go takes #strength and #perseverance