This quote 🙌🏽💪🏽 It’s been a very tough week for me after seeing someone who broke my heart and wasn’t even slightly sorry or remorseful for doing so. That person has no shame and no humanity for others and that is what I have learnt recently. Im not perfect but I know I loved that person so wholefully and unconditionally that it didn’t matter how they treated me or how they behaved I thought it was my fault, apologised and tried to make it right. Always. 10 years I’d loved this person and if I’m honest I still do which is the hardest thing. Forgiveness is not something I do easily but you know what I do forgive them because actually it’s their loss. They walked away from me and my son. My son deserves far better and if they truely loved him they’d not do that. Also if you have a fight for the first time I think it’s telling that they blame you and cut you off like a gangrenous limb with no discussion or chance to talk about what’s happened. That’s not love and I see that now it was one sided and ultimately would always fail it just took 10 years for that to happen. I will end on a note that I miss them terribly and I hope that they are happy and loved and doing ok. Because im soft and I can’t be cruel to people. I know I will never get my say or get to talk about what happened out loud to them so I’ll use these squares to show my strength, emotion and to let others know that I guess the heart can break but also it can heal and that when you didn’t think you were strong, you look back and think im still here and im living the best way I can 💪🏽 (side note: no it’s not my husband💕) .
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