I think there's a difference between talking about human behavior, and human relations, as opposed to having conversations that are directly (or indirectly) aimed toward the detriment of others. I can't do it. And If you're doing that, I know. We are all guilty. We all have skeletons. Forgiveness is the only answer. Yes, we should forgive those who persecute us. I didn't say that we have to restore, or reunify relations. I said forgive. And not only should we forgive but we should bless them. Actually pray for them! This is what I believe. Easy? Sometimes. Other times its extraordinarily challenging... Do it anyway.