Who hasn’t been brought up with the term...if you don’t have anything nice to say then don’t say anything at all?? I know I have! I know starting a fundraiser to help cover med costs is not important to others or others may think other things as well and everyone has a right to. However, what I won’t accept is negative feedback regarding it and why no one will help. It’s up for those who understand and want to help. And if u don’t agree then ignore my posts but please don’t share your input or give me any advice. I know there are a lot of couples that are going thru this hard reality and how costly it is and how hard people work to earn the costs for it. I’m almost 39 and my Dr actually advised me to start treatment ASAP due to the results that came back to me. Yes Sam and I will save and try to do it on our own but this will take awhile and will be a long process as we’re not rich. We’re a normal couple who love each other genuinely and completely and who dreams of having at least one child of our own. I’ve wanted to be a mom since I was 21 yrs old. I was married at 22 and we lasted 7 years of marriage but 13 yrs in total together until I found out he was having an affair for one year behind my back. And I always questioned why he didn’t want to ever try to want to get pregnant ever. So I waited and waited and no one special came into my life until Sam entered my heart and has shown me true love and what I needed from a man was possible and not a girl in dream land. Until u have walked in my shoes or his then u don’t know us at all. There’s so much untold about our lives that people don’t know and how we’ve both overcome extremely bad hardships in life. Nothing has ever been easy but that’s what makes us the people we are today. I believe everything happens for a reason and I leave the fundraiser campaign up and let God guid us. Whatever happens then we accept it as heartbreaking it would b if I never have a child of my own. I surround myself with supportive loving positive people and negativity will be dismissed and forgotten. How u treat others defines your character, not mine.