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EL AMOR DE Mi ViDA #reallovedoesnthurt #ladueñademicorazon #fatheranddaughter 👨‍👧😉

This takes practice! I allowed my emotions to take the reigns just for a moment. In that moment, I lost a piece of my power. I can't allow that to happen again. I must stay strong and true to my goal: I will claim ALL of my power back, for he never held my heart like the treasure it is.

One of the best and most meaningful messages I have ever read. So often natural responses to #trauma such as #disassociation are easy to mistake for #stonewalling or #silenttreatment and therefore it’s easy to convince yourself that you are the whole problem and never even see the whole picture. Someone else was not whole and they put their brokenness on you. And because you are not whole now you cannot give someone else what you do not have either. This is not #justification nor does it make it right. What it does is allow the cycle to end. You can stop abusing YOURSELF and the ones you are trying to love only you don’t don’t know to love because you don’t have love and the only love you’ve ever understood is not love at all. Its #manipulation and #control. You will stop allowing yourself to be #abused by #narcissisticpeople with #toxicbehaviors 🌷 #traumarecovery #mentalhealthawareness #mentalhealth #narcissism #emotionalabuse #breakthesilence #breakthecycle #reallovedoesnthurt

Spread LOVE today. You never know what someone is going through. A smile doesn’t mean everything is ok. Laughter doesn’t mean life is great. A hug doesn’t cost a thing - you might save someone’s life. #realtalk #💯 #love #hugs #smile #endorphins #beauthentic #faith #lovewithoutlimits #unconditionallove #loveyourself #loveislove #bekind #reallovedoesnthurt #loveyou #lovethem #lovethehelloutofpeople #joy #lovewins #lovelive #loveya #💋

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I just saw a quote that was talking about how some heartbreaks save you and it got me thinking about who I was just seven months ago. Breaking up with my ex saved my life. If I hadn't gotten the courage to leave him I wouldn't be who I'm becoming. I wouldn't be this sober girl full of life and love. I talk often about how bleak my life felt before but there honestly was no hope and love back then. I tried to take my own life in November as a way to leave that relationship. I wanted out so bad and I couldn't find an out. Thankfully at the end of January someone came into my life who helped me run for my life. I broke free. And since breaking free I've truly seen what love is. What love from a mother should be like, what love from a lover should look and feel like and how it feels to be embraced by a family and to feel like I belong somewhere.
#partofmystory #reallovedoesnthurt #breakfree #abusesurvivor #thenandnow #myjourneycontinues #mystoryisntoveryet #strength #lifechanges #thankfulforthislife #growth #change #findhappiness #smile #happy #guyswithbeards #relationship #boyfriend #girlswithcoloredhair #halfshavedhead #girlswithhalfshavedhair #girlswithpiercings #doublenosepiercing #nosering #girlswithgauges #eyebrowpiercing #lippiercing #snakebitepiercings

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Facing some past demons today in the interest of someone else's well-being. I never knew I was in an abusive relationship until a professor cared enough to take me to social services where I saw the the images below. I, unfortunately, experienced something in every category of the Power and Control Wheel. When in this situation, you justify that you're not regularly being beaten to pulp, so it's not abuse. Oftentimes, you think your partner's actions are your fault because they have eroded your self-esteem and you just want to please them. There are other types of abuse and they often lead to physical abuse and sometimes worse. If you identify with the images below, even if it's only one or two categories, PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE talk to someone! Don't suffer in silence. I am here for you all. Send me a DM, call me, approach me around town, etc. I will listen and help if you ask! No one should have to live this way. NO ONE!!! ♥️🖤💛💚💙💜 #abuseadvocate #selfloveisthebestlove #mentalhealthmatters #fightforfreedom #reallovedoesnthurt #abusesurvivor #abuseawareness #powerandcontrol #innerdemons #loveyourself

To every person who is in a relationship with an English Football Fan, where there is #domesticviolence you will be breathing the biggest sigh of relief that England won it's football match. I remember.

There is a documented 30% spike of DV assaults during the World Cup. Please, when you can, seek a safe place. #reallovedoesnthurt #worldcup2018 #domesticviolenceawareness #youarenotinvisible #youarenotmad #gaslighting #artivism

No excuses, you never have to chase what’s real #reallovedoesnthurt

Another #lessonlearned #reallovedoesnthurt Follow @thinkrethink.dk for more awesome words of wisdom!

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