So this would be the trap if you let my nephew tell it! But this one is for my guys. So hopefully my pictures have caught your attention (they have me on big brother punishment). I have been going nuts trying figure out exactly what I should let you know is a major issue for women. Here is what I came up with.
Fellas, When you mess up and you are going to mess up.
Allow me to side step. A min. Women expect you to mess up quiet as it’s kept. We do. We know You, just like us are human and we know we are flawed it isn’t personal , it’s life. Another understanding is Women since childhood are back beaten with perfectionism, fantasy and appearance. The way we look, speak, come across.... the list is countless. So our ego’s are bigger than yours. Women front it is in our blood. DO NOT BRUISE HER EGO. But you will so don’t add to it by now also insulting her intelligence. The very best thing you can do if you want to keep a solid relationship is. Acknowledge your mess up.
I know, I know, I probably lost you with that but honestly fellas. Be honest! There a few reasons why I say this.
And Ladies, I am a bit hardcore. If you don’t agree with me. Fine. I am a bit mature in life. At this point I prefer my truth straight up, no chaser. Let me know what I am dealing with so I can best play my hand but you can only do that if you have a good partner. We all know we have to test the parameters of a relationship. Most people stupidly act like they are dating the same person in every relationship just a continuation although people are so different but they are really confused as to why it didn’t work. Again. So, (example) you messed up with finances,cheating: you lost your mind and cursed her out because that’s how things were in your last relationship etc. (Violence should never be tolerated!) You can get past it. Keep in mind women typically know more than we say when confronting things. As much as we talk, surprising, huh? You should also remember Every woman should have detective on her resume. We can collect data and build a case.
I can give you so much more insight but let’s talk in person.
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