As an empath and deeply caring person the people who drain you can be hard to deal with.
Often they are permanent installations in our life, like family members who have "installed our emotional buttons and responses". Or clients who say they don't want to take up our time, but then push the limits on what we do for them.
They know when and how to push for what they want and it leaves us drained.
They may not realize the effect that they have on us.
And I know! You’ve tried everything to get them to leave you alone!
Sometimes the more you push away, the more urgent they become to keep at you.
The body language we use and the demeanor around others, sets up who has the power in the relationship.
So if your sibling has always had all the power… it is because that is what is expected by both of you.
If you client always steps over your boundaries, you need to firm up your offerings.
It is not too late to change the energy of the relationship. You can still remain the wonderful, gifted and caring empath that you are to everyone.
If you find yourself in this situation, there are several things you can do to regain your sense of control. Especially when you notice you feel drained around people. 💠 Acknowledge that you have energetically given them permission to continue to treat you this way. 💠Decide that you want to change the energy of the relationship. 💠Commit to pay attention to how you might be giving your power away.
These steps will help you gain awareness of what is going on in your thought, behavior and energy patterns when you are in these situations.
Let me know below if you have a particular relationship that you feel needs a shift.
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