#Genderbending

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@tom_harlow is what dreams are made of! #moustache #genderbending #boylesque

I’ve been trying to convince myself to cut off my hair for 3 years. The fact that I haven’t yet speaks to a few things: attachment to objects, association of hair with identity, association of hair with perceived attractiveness, insecurity, & dysphoria. .
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This past year, I’ve grown more comfortable in my genderqueerness, cultivating my performance art & drag king identity, exploring my masculinity. Simultaneously, I’ve yearned, increasingly to cut it.  I get a lot of compliments on my hair. I don’t value compliments on my physical appearance very highly, and oftentimes they make me uncomfortable. Yet I’ve noticed that my reluctance to cut it is partly a result of me internalizing these compliments as my hair = what makes me “attractive” or valuable to others. I’ve noticed that I associate parts of my femme identity, and my security in it, with my hair length / style. I know that most people do, too.
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I yearn for my genderqueerness and my expression of queer masculinity to feel more validated, more seen. I want to feel comfortable & handsome & attractive—without the safety blanket of long hair. .
But then I tell myself: ‼️fuck that ‼️ aren’t you just reinforcing cisheteronormative gender norms??? 🧐 short hair= masculine; long hair = feminine always??🧐 ‼️We all know this is utter bullshit‼️Then I remind myself: I’ve performed in drag with short and long hair, and felt equally powerful as fuck.‼️I’ve presented with my hair down, or hidden in a hat, pulled back, & felt equally comfortable - depending on the day. ‼️I like versatility‼️hair is impermanent ‼️
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So THEN I get stuck in this cycle of validating wanting to express myself certain ways, but simultaneously calling myself out, & then justifying myself again. I’m also a gemini moon AKA indecisive as fuck/often fear that i’ll regret my decisions (which happens often). 😅😫 So I DON’T KNOW. I’m rambling. I do know I’ll cut my hair, eventually.
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But until then, I’ll keep reminding myself: genderqueerness has no parameters or stipulations on femininity, masculinity, or everything else outside & in between. 🍂My expression is mine. 🍂My performance is mine. 🍂My identity is mine.🍂

“Get off my dick” - Beyoncé. My trip to Lexington go postponed so I decided to become a woman. Y’all know I NEVER wear lashes but I am absolutely 100% in LOVE with my new lashes thanks to @aria_51x / @glamienglow 10/10 would purchase again. Thank you so much for helping my look get to the next level! #drag #dragqueen #dragrace #rupaulsdragrace #rpdr #genderbending #clubkid #makeup #nyxcosmetics #nyxprofessionalmakeup #sugarpill #sugarpillcosmetics #mehron #mehronboy #localqueen #qwerrrkout

Cruello x Cruella
Masculino ou Feminino? Comenta aí 🙃

She’s a woman! Had a blast painting @actualtrash18 ‘s face, anyone else want there face painted?
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#drag #dragqueen #dragbaby #transformation #gay #gayboy #queer #localqueen #genderbending #dragmakeup #makeupartist #followme #staygolden #rosenylon

The holy fool.
Or "Judas on a budget." - @that_yogi_artist
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My parents kicked me out of the house and I spent all my money on tickets to the monster ball tour. .
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#Judas #Ladygaga #Androgyny #Nonbinary #NonbinaryModel #Nonbinarygirl #Trans #Transfemme #Transmodel #LGBTQIA #Models #Queer #GenderBending #GenderFluid #GenderNonconforming #Genderless #TransInpublic #VisiblyTrans #Drag #DragQueen #LadyGagaDrag

So i wanted to take some time to jump back into making another post on kinks, fetishes and other forms of sexual exploration. Today id like to explore one of my personal favorites and that is gender bending.
Gender bending can be experimented with or is and has been implemented as a total lifestyle. Some people (like myself) identify equally as being completely balanced as male and female and explore both those sides with ease.
Some like to dress as the opposite sex for fun or as a sexual turn on.
Have you ever experimented with gender bending or known someone who has?

“Well behaved women seldom make history”
I’ve had people tell me that I’m “too buff” or they say “that’s unnatural!”. My question is... what do you MEAN it’s unnatural?? I literally worked up to this naturally. Females are very strong- it’s just I’m not afraid to be proud of it- and show it off.
Never in my wildest of dreams would I imagine myself 4 years ago, being able to look like this. Sure.. I’m still self conscious. But it’s just a journey we’re all going through. Love you all friends. Happy Friday!
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#womenwholift #genderbending #girls #belive #oopsimbuff #weightlossjourney #itsajourney #captainamerica #csusum #californiaadventure #dca #disney #disneyland #strongfemale #girlswholift #powerlifting #weightlifter #gymrat #motivation #flexitfriday #inspirational #beforeandafter #beatthatscale

"If it scares you, then you have to do this." - Martha Henry on playing Prospero for #TheTempest @stratfest.
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Henry's first role at #Stratford was in 1972, as Miranda in The Tempest. This year, at 80, Henry is reimagining Prospero, a Shakespearean role traditionally reserved for men. Hear from her experiences. #GenderBending #Shakespeare, Sep. 24. Admission free. RSVP link in bio.

A little sequenz with cookie eyed @queerfynn
Thx also to Instagram for the super nice quality of my video 💀

„gENDer“ - another video still from the essay short film „The Roles We Play“ (ll) with the fantastic @queerfynn ❤️ one of the two individual stories about gender, norms, sexuality and society.

BUENO, BUENO, BUENO AMIGAS. 💅👑🍻
Después de la súper maravillosa gala Drag King organizada el 22 de agosto en Vigo, volvemos a tope a Coruña 😎😎😎😎
Podréis vernos el SÁBADO 29 DE SEPTIEMBRE a @nico_elsker, @lesdrags y a mí hacer cosas de travestis divinos, todo presentado por el artistazo de @enfantbello en la sala @claro.boba a partir de la 01:30h.
Os espero para beberme vuestra sangre, comerme a vuestros hijos y cantar Madonna con todo el sentimiento. ¡Nos vemos cerdas de mi corazón! ...... #DragKing #Galadragking #DragKingGala #Drag #DragShow #DragKingShow #DragKingSpain #KingBrothers #DragKingsOfInstagram #DragKingsOfIg #MaleImpersonator #MaleIllusion #MaleIllusionists #Genderbend #genderbending #Genderfuck #DragKingPerformer #DragSpain #DragGalicia #pride #lgtb #queer #lesbian #gay #bisexual #trans #DragKingPerformance #Coruña #ClaroBoba

Sometimes no bra is better. Got some sleepwear like this on sale in the store. Also lace front wigs like the one shown! Link in bio!
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#crossdesser #crossdressing #wig #wigs #lacefront #lacefrontwig #trans #transgender #genderfluid #genderqueer #genderbender #genderbending #lgbt #lgbtq #mtf #wavywig #nightgown #braless #boobless #plussizeclothing

I love and respect the hell out of the #legendary #iconic RuPaul Charles, #Glamazon Extraordinaire. He embodies CharismaUniquenessNerveTalent like no other, and he is doing wonders for the #LGBTQ world as well as anyone else who feels like an outsider in society.
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RuPaul's show @rupaulsdragrace is one of the best shows I’ve ever seen, it has so much hilarity, creativity, fun, insane talent and HEART – the show has me in tears almost every episode. Especially in the last few years when kind, supportive, sisterly drag queen’s with heart and soul get more spotlight, and harsh, unkind "Heather” types fade more and more into the background, as they should.
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This particular #RuPaul quote is such a wise one which I think we can all draw on during life’s more challenging times. It is from RuPaul’s 2010 book ”Workin' It!: RuPaul's Guide to Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Style.”
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#LGBTQ #LGBT #gay #queer #drag #dragqueen #dragqueens #dragking #dragkings #dragshow #androgyny #owningourmasculineandfeminineparts #balance #2spirit #twospirit #transgender #feminism #genderbending #genderoutlaws #art #expression fuels #mentalhealth #emotionalhealth #spiritualhealth #culturalhealth

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