"She was dressed formally .Makeup , bangles and that innocence enhanced her beauty .Everyone is the house was preparing for the guests.And then they arrived, everyone was reserve and acted very cooperatively with them .She was called to come meet the guests.As soon as she came everyone stared at her .She was shy and scared and layers of awkwardness were resonating from her body .While serving the tea everyone was observing her to notice even the slightest mistake or flaw in her .Then started the questioning phase .Can you cook ?Can you stitch?What else can you do ? How much you have studied? And a bunch of other relateable questions.Then they examined her as someone examines anything before buying .They ate the snacks , took the tea , behaved nicely and then left the house by saying that we'll get back to you .Many days passed but no response came finally after waiting along when her family called them to ask about their answer ,very soffisticatedly they said by making lame excuses that we don't find this pairing worthy .FLASH .Bunch of feelings and hopes were shattered.She was broken in a moment not because she was rejected but because of the lame excuses they made ; she is so short, she have a dark conplexion, she's very skinny and alot more unbearable excuses .
She was drenched in sorrow as she felt that she was rejected because she is not pretty at all .Her confidence shattered,her self love was finished.Just in a moment she was a totally different person than she used to be" .
This story belongs to majority of the girls in our society .This happens regularly when people come to see the girls and examines them to the worst limit they can which breaks the girl.She gets hurt ,gets depressed just because of the rejection and the deadly excuses.But we have to change it even on the individual level .Even in our religion it is said that first see the girl gather all the possible information about her and then accept or reject her but without hurting her .There are multiple ways of saying a no.Girls are not meant to be examined and always keep one thing in mind : "SOORAT NHI SEERAT DEKHO"