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My sweet Enneagram Nines! Today is your day!! This playlist of songs was put together to demonstrate Nines’ accepting, trusting, stable, and supportive natures while simultaneously speaking to their natural coping mechanism of “turning down” their feelings and desires for the sake of others.
Hop on over to the link in my highlights and give a listen! Hopefully the songs will bring you a little peace and give a sliver of what it’s like inside the mind of a mediator. ♥️

The Enneagram Eight playlist is dedicated to the people whose lives revolve around power. They’re drawn to it. As soon as an Eight steps into a room, it’s like they have a metal detector for energy in their mind- constantly searching out who is on their level and can go toe-to-toe with their passion. These protective, resourceful, straight-talking, and decisive types love the thrill of a debate and will fight for the underdog. They are fierce protectors. I👏🏽 Love👏🏽 Eights👏🏽
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What feels like intimacy to an Eight often feels like conflict to others. Eights feel they must control their environment (and others) in order for things to go the right way, which can make them appear confrontational and intimidating. They can also be ego-centric, domineering, and may have problems with their tempers and allowing themselves to be vulnerable.
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Cheers to the Eights in our lives. They keep us safe, make hard decisions, fight for those who might be weak, and love deeply. So plug into the power and give a listen to my Eight playlist (link in highlights!) for a brief journey into the mind of our challenger/protectors.

INTP 9w8
Another one for my type, feel free to request any
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INTP 927
My type. Quite a strange combo tbh, i dont think its common at all to have an intp without a 5 or w5 in their tritype but there u go
#intp #mbti #enneagram #927 #enneagram9 #9w8

✨E N N E A G R A M N I N E S✨

How to Get Along With Me:
✓I enjoy serving others but not if I am expected or demanded to do so.
✓Please listen intently to me when I speak and show me that what I say matters to you. It is helpful if you reword what I said back to me, since this really demonstrates to me that you heard me and care.
✓I am often unclear with what I want or need. Please help me discover my real desires by asking me questions. This may take a long time, so please be patient with me. I am not trying to be difficult or stubborn. I simply do not know my desires.

💭Want more tips on "how to get along" with Type 9s (and all other Enneagram Types, for that matter)?
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My sweet Nines! Today is your day!! These songs were put together to demonstrate Nines’ accepting, trusting, stable, and supportive natures while simultaneously speaking to their natural coping mechanism of “turning down” their feelings and desires for the sake of others.
Hop on over to the link in my profile and give a listen! Hopefully the songs will bring you a little peace and give a sliver of what it’s like inside the mind of a mediator. ♥️

Last week I shared an old painting of The Enneagram on stories and I was surprised by how many of you are into it too! The enneagram is an amazing tool for observing your personal behavior and those who surround you. You begin to understand why they act differently than you would and really helps relationships in general. My family (on my dad’s side) talks in enneagram language 😂, when we tell a story we always mention what number that person is so it makes everything coherent. For real. •
Anyways, if you’re into it, find a book on Amazon, take the test or read up on it! Here are the basic definitions from the Enneagram Institute, see if anything sounds familiar: •
Enneagram Types:

1 THE REFORMER
The Rational, Idealistic Type: Principled, Purposeful, Self-Controlled, and Perfectionistic

2 THE HELPER
The Caring, Interpersonal Type: Demonstrative, Generous, People-Pleasing, and Possessive

3 THE ACHIEVER
The Success-Oriented, Pragmatic Type: Adaptive, Excelling, Driven, and Image-Conscious

4 THE INDIVIDUALIST
The Sensitive, Withdrawn Type: Expressive, Dramatic, Self-Absorbed, and Temperamental

5 THE INVESTIGATOR
The Intense, Cerebral Type: Perceptive, Innovative, Secretive, and Isolated

6 THE LOYALIST
The Committed, Security-Oriented Type: Engaging, Responsible, Anxious, and Suspicious

7 THE ENTHUSIAST
The Busy, Fun-Loving Type: Spontaneous, Versatile, Distractible, and Scattered

8 THE CHALLENGER
The Powerful, Dominating Type: Self-Confident, Decisive, Willful, and Confrontational

9 THE PEACEMAKER
The Easygoing, Self-Effacing Type: Receptive, Reassuring, Agreeable, and Complacent

This is my new version of this painting. I might make more. 🖤

It’s Wednesday, so you know what that means- it’s Enneagram playlist time!!!
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Eights’ lives revolve around power. They’re drawn to it. As soon as an Eight steps into a room, it’s like they have a metal detector for energy in their mind- constantly searching out who is on their level and can go toe-to-toe with their passion. These protective, resourceful, straight-talking, and decisive types love the thrill of a debate and will fight for the underdog. They are fierce protectors. I👏🏽 Love👏🏽 Eights👏🏽
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What feels like intimacy to an Eight often feels like conflict to others. Eights feel they must control their environment (and others) in order for things to go the right way, which can make them appear confrontational and intimidating. They can also be ego-centric, domineering, and may have problems with their tempers and allowing themselves to be vulnerable.
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Cheers to the Eights in our lives. They keep us safe, make hard decisions, fight for those who might be weak, and love deeply. So plug into the power and give a listen to my Eight playlist (link in bio!) for a brief journey into the mind of our challenger/protectors.

The Enneagram is so great because of the nuance it allows. The author of the book we referenced earlier in the week explains it so well... just like we say that color is blue, it could be one of 1,000 different shades of blue.
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As a 9w8, there are a lot of similarities between Ben and I on the surface - the optimism, being able to relate to pretty much anyone and doing almost whatever it takes to keep the peace. As you dig further though, those wings really kick in! Ben is dependable, consistent and has so much integrity.
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I tend to be warm, inviting, and accepting of almost anyone and anything. To the point where I can get lost in opinions and live in "the grey" ... I have a hard time with making decisions or defining my value system. I also went to conservative Christian schools kindergarten - graduating college and I still don’t get the rules.
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My day to day life is easy; filled with lots of happiness. I only get stuck with major life decisions, so I have a crisis every few years when that happens, otherwise it’s fine being a nine!
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#enneagram #enneagram9 #peacemaker #9w8

Enneagram 9s on the 9th✨

Every Enneagram Type has a Core Weakness or "deadly sin" (adapted from the traditional list of 7 deadly sins).

Today we'll be looking at the Core Weakness of Type 9, which is #sloth.

For a Type 9, "sloth" (or "indolence") is the desire to be unaffected by life. It's the unwillingness to arise with the fullness of one’s vitality to fully engage with life.

Type 9 friends: notice your tendency to want to be unaffected by life. How is that working for you? What can you do to fully show up and bless others with your presence today?

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The pain exists. It hurts.
But it's how I know I still have some lessons to learn in this life.
Still, knowing that there's more #selfempowerment gained as a result of what I learn from a big mistake churns some joy from within.
I know what my future holds.

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Enneagram 9s on the 9th | Growth Point

Type 9s, your growth point is the healthy side of Type 3! At your growth point:
✓You become more self-developing and energetic.
✓You learn that the peace you seek comes from showing up, asserting yourself in life, and blessing others with your full presence.🌼

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Enneagram 9s on the 9th...

Enneagram 9s: You're motivated by a need to be harmonious in all of your relationships, which keeps you from fully expressing yourself. Your personality keeps you trapped by making you think this is who you really are. Real life change comes when we recognize these false messages and stop letting them define who we are. The Enneagram can help you break free from the unhelpful thought pattern that you must not express yourself for fear of being inharmonious.

Find out how the Enneagram can help you break free from what's holding you back by emailing me @ marykate@yournewlife.org to set up a free 15 min consultation!

|Type 9| Focus of Attention:
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•Your focus of attention is to avoid potential conflict.
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•You do this by learning other people’s agenda so you know how to keep the peace.

#CoachingTip for Type Nines: Notice today if you're "merging" to fit other people's desires, instead of pursuing your own. 🖤

Type 9...The message your heart longs to hear is: "Your presence matters." ❤️
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You have grown up thinking your presence doesn't matter - which couldn't be further from the truth! Your presence DOES matter. There are so many people who love you and enjoy spending time with you. And best of all, your presence matters because God says it matters! He created you for a specific purpose that only you can fulfill. 💟
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"For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago." –Ephesians 2:10

“There is no one who is insignificant in the purpose of God.” –Alistair Begg
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Share the love! Tag a Type 9 friend & let them know their presence matters to you! 😘

Type Nine's. In childhood you probably had a great fear of rejection. You may have experienced it a time or two and decided you will do all you can to avoid that pain in the future. The lesson you learned, and message you heard through childhood was "It is not okay to assert yourself."
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NINES, your word for 2018 is ENGAGEMENT. 🙌
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Engagement means "emotional involvement or commitment." This is a struggle for Nines whose vice is sloth and desire to be unaffected by - or fully engage in - life.
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Type Nine friends, in 2018 practice being interested in what's occurring around you and allow yourself (in the words of Russ Huddson) to experience a "gigantic 'YES' feeling to your own existence." 😊

T Y P E N I N E S:
You reflect God's peace + oneness.
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"Those who reflect Type Nine reflect God's blending of all things into a peaceful harmony." (Marilyn Vancil, "Self to Lose Self to Find")
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For a child is born to us, a son is given to us. The government will rest on his shoulders. And he will be called: Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of P E A C E. {Isaiah 9:6}
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I pray that they will all be O N E, just as you and I are one—as you are in me, Father, and I am in you. And may they be in us so that the world will believe you sent me. ~Jesus {John 17:21}
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Who do you know that embodies these characteristics? Tag a friend who's a Nine to encourage them today! 😊

At the age of 21, Charlie Young receives the job of a lifetime when he is hired as President Bartlet's Personal Aide. Of all the numbers on the Enneagram, I think Charlie most resembles a Type 9.

If I had to pick one word to describe Charlie's character throughout the course of the show, it would be "steady." As the President's Personal Aid, Charlie has the unfortunate task of making the Present's early morning wake-up calls or securing the ideal carving knife for Barlet's Thanksgiving meal. No matter how unglamorous or trivial the task, Charlie never complains, and goes above and beyond to execute whatever is asked of him. •
Charlie's remarkable work ethic leads me to believe he's probably a 9w1 (though he we see him engage conflict throughout the series, so he obviously has access to his 9w8 side as well). •
Like all healthy 9s, Charlie is awake to himself and fully present in the world around him. He is driven and hardworking (health for 9s is growing in the direction of Type 3). Known as the "peacemakers" of the Enneagram, 9s dislike conflict more than any other Type. However, a healthy 9 recognizes that true inner peace cannot be achieved without some kind of conflict. At their best, 9s are patient, flexible, accepting, relaxed, unself-conscious, agreeable, content, comforting, and idealizing. 💛

Type nine friends! When your desire to seek peace hasn't worked out in your favor, you can become forgetful, stubborn, passive-aggressive, judgmental, or unassertive.
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Know nines, that there will be conflict in life, but Christ has put you here on purpose, for a purpose!

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