|| Men Need Love Now More Than Ever || ‘We must come together in equilibrium and deep unity so we may all prosper and feel the truth in love and meaningful connection’. I witness facade and unconscious desperation in the blessed work I do and embody often. Men yearning for touch, nurturing, sincere validation / credit (not egoic), love, reverence, to be honored, to be fully seen, heard, felt and known, to be appreciated and cared for on so many levels.
Men not knowing how to consciously communicate their truth, their authentic power - to show what they truly need to thrive not just survive and oppress. Too afraid they will be ridiculed, called weak, told they are needy, to ‘man up’, be ‘tough’, work through it independently and be a ‘lone ranger’. And more so by fellow men... This collective attitude perpetuated by a culture of rampant, competitive individualism, unhealthy patriarchy, toxic male dominated ideals imposed upon the fabric of society and forced, fractured femininity has lead to a disjointed connection between genders and love itself.
So many men are lost, caught in limbo and in a vortex of who to be and what to be? Confused and caught between being true and being ostracized - between the in-group (survival) and the out-group (perceived death). Whilst so many empowered women are disheartened, perplexed and not knowing how to respond to such a new way of interacting.
It is so foreign - men, can we truly blame now that we are turning the tides of our hearts? For such a lengthened and compounded period of time there has been tremendous gender gaps and biases in our relating. We have related at a distance based on dear based, volatile and extreme forms of connecting.
We have ‘done’ what we have had to and both genders have assumed unhealthy, polarized roles in bonding - reactive and survival brain based behaviour. For the majority of society the role identification and embodiment has been disjointed at best.
We have operated from fear, power struggles and deep unconscious pain. Men need to learn to express love. We must cultivate the courage to step in to vulnerability. 💋♥️#divinemasculine #union #121212