i constantly find myself forcing answers out of people and I've finally come to the conclusion that force does nothing for anyone ever. you force someone into a job they start out hating it, you force someone into a relationship they end up cheating, you force ponytails they end up paint brushes, and so forth. there is such thing as being too vocal, and I've struggled with that literally all my life. i would say whatever i was thinking in that moment regardless of the pain it would cause anyone, it was what i thought in my mind so i thought it was right. and this is where it ends, i found myself forcing answers out of people that aren't eager about moving to the next level, and that's in every aspect. they are ready to stand still and settle, which is not me. im done asking questions with my eager ass. I've decided to let things be as they are. im always trying to save someone, help someone through their journey that actually doesn't want help at all. but before i do that i need to listen, instead of speaking on impulse, and see if i need help first.