Sometimes when you're in love, what's important for you gets kind of blurry, and who you really are fade away. The good times are soo good, sadly often good enough to forget or accept the bad parts. I was in a relationship with someone who said he liked me the way that I was. I think he was telling the truth, but still, I wasn't good enough. That made him go mad, and he started being kind of obsessive and told me to change things about myself(later i was told that apparently I needed to "evolve" and become a better human being). I wanted to make him happy so I tried. Stop smiling and responding if guys talked to me, and not letting them touch me, even if it simply was a shoulder. If I did anything that he didn't like, he would go completely mad, ignore me, and even how loud I screamed "what's wrong?" in his face he would continue walking away from me with his earphones on, pretending that I didn't exist. I didn't have a clue what I had done wrong. I found out it could be something as simple as smiling to a friend(a guy ofc), or talking to one. If he was with me I'd introduce him, and then he'd go away in his own corner, mad as hell, making sure it showed that I had done something bad. After several hours or maybe a couple of days he would calme down and say he felt overlooked if I didn't tell people we met, that he was my boyfriend. Then when I did, he would say that I didn't show it enough cus I didn't say "chérie" to him in front of them, or that I gave my friends more attention than him.