Ladies please read. Gents too, if you please. Put in your 2 cents (No pun intended) this is a repost from someone I truly admire ~~> @mrchrisclassic I just felt like some women needed to read this:
😂😩from last nights story and about to be tonights too 😂😩 ____
Sidebar: a woman DM'd me asking how a man in a seemingly happy relationship can watch porn or go to a strip club. 😐
As if the fact those three things were in the same question didnt answer it for her. Lol.
Sex is NOT based on emotion for most men.
Watchin porn does not internally hold some merit as a departure emotionally from our partner based on not being fulfilled by her. We are not THINKING about it deeply in our core. As visual creatures we prefer to SEE things that excite us instead of audibly or mentally as do most women.
Ive heard it countless times: women cheat when theyre unhappy. Its a well thought out conscientious decision usually done so secretly and concealed it will never be found out. Its a rebellion. An escape. Its intense.
Men disconnect from any of that and are the complete opposite.
A man with a healthy respect for his partner and who is empathetic towards her schedule will not possibly expect her to have sex as many times as he is thinking about it in a day. If there are children in the home it creates a different type of barrier anyway.
Watching porn is personal. Has nothing to do with his mate unless they choose to watch together.
Strip club is similar in that its visual. Live!
Being there is one thing. Becoming a participant in the physical interaction depends on the boundary his relationship has.
Again, for men IT IS NOT an emotional, planned, internal departure from his woman. Its rather selfish (self driven), personal, non reflective of what he thinks of his woman or his love for her.
HOWEVER IF YOURE IN A RELATIONSHIP, COMMUNICATE TO KNOW WHERE YOUR PARTNER STANDS. ❤️❤️❤️❤️
All love. Im posting this because I have a feeling many women who were raised a certain way have this same mindset and actually see it as disrespectful or questionable. I cant point your moral compass for you, but Me and mine are fine and quite happy