hello, can i just let my feminist side break loose for a second? can i just respect women for a minute? in my eyes, no one should be able to determine what makes a woman. i had a conversation with someone the other day and he told me he would "never let his girlfriend go out in public" wearing a certain clothing or wearing certain makeup. i just simply asked him why and he replied saying "cause she's doing it to impress other men". what? what kind of shit are you smoking. there's this thing called confidence. self love. i think a woman should be able to go out in public in whatever she'd like. if she wants to wear that crop top and ripped short, let that girl work that shit. if someone feels confident in themselves and think they look beautiful, no one in the fucking world and i repeat, NO ONE has the right to take that away from them. no one. big girls should be able to wear a crop top just like a skinny girl should. did the inventor of crop tops say "oops sorry, you have to be a certain size to wear this type of shirt"? no. so you shouldn't be able to either. society should not tell someone to be someone they are not. i personally feel women are victimized by this all the time. i definitely am not saying that this can't happen to men, this could totally be a thing and i don't think it's right for them either. i think a lot of the time people have this kind of attitude like "oh, just another feminist" and they don't really take the time to hear things out. i don't care about that silly elementary school "love yourself!!" shit. this is real shit that goes on and it makes me SICK to know that people just look over it like fucking dirt. i have this thing called a heart and i'm this thing called a human and i know right from wrong and i'd like to think i have more common sense than other people in this fucked up world do. the word woman does not fit in a box. it is many wonderful things. it is beautiful.