Sometimes life makes no sense.
You sit and think: What the hell is the whole thing? Why should I live at all, for what?
There is a certain emptiness in the room. You feel lost. Nothing seems more important.
No matter what positive mantras and sentences one mentally mentions, nothing helps. The feeling of senselessness remains and is pressing hard on the mind.
This point is disturbing and liberating.
Disturbing, because you do not know at first how to deal with it. Liberating, because at this point a lot of new possibilities can arise, if one admits and can deal with it.
What makes life meaning?
Again and again I asked myself this question and I never received an answer.
The more I looked for a sense, the less it seemed to me that I would ever find a satisfactory answer.
Perplexity grew wide.
I also tried to forget the question for a while. Just to live. This did not work so well. Again and again the question came up. The question did not leave me alone ...
And then, one day, I sat half desperately in front of my desk, came the enlightenment: there is no point. Life has no meaning. And asking for it alone is totally absurd and makes no sense.
For if there was a sense, who would then determine that? And what would it look like?
So suppose there is a meaning that is at the bottom of life. What could that be? To breed? That can not be anything. Having a nice job, starting a family and building a house? Hm, much too superficial. Follow his calling and make the most of every situation? Sounds kind of too simple and unsatisfying
But I do not like that at all, you might say.
If life has no meaning, why should I live at all? For what? That does not make sense. That's why I often feel so lost and miserable, precisely because I do not know what to live for.
You are looking for a meaning where there is none. That's the problem. The search itself is the problem!
Let me explain ...
Throughout your life you are looking for a meaning, for what it is worth living for. And because you've always been on the lookout, you've never been in for a search.
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