Peace! But in all seriousness, President Obama will be missed in my house. Not only was he a shining example of American possibility, he was an ally, a force for social justice, and helped make it possible for me to marry the man I love. He executed his job with grace and vigor that will be sorely missed as we head into the wilderness years of American politics. Thank you, Mr. President. You gave Americans the strength, in Bobby Kennedy's words, to ask "why not?" when other people just ask "why?"