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Phoebe Loomes  LπŸŒΌπŸŒ•MES phoebeloomes@gmail.com

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I take my bad experiences and turn them into a way to grow. It's called alchemy. When you're weak, horrible people will take advantage of you. I've grown strong, and now peace is something that belongs to me. Being single can be powerful, it's a skill that takes a while to master. Embrace you! @dailytelegraph link in my bio

Here is a sneak peek at what you'll see on Hack Live this Tuesday on ABC2.
I'm wearing this amazing set of sustainable, ethical yoga clothes, all made from recycled water bottles. Feels like silk and good karma @alas_the_label βœ¨πŸ™πŸ½

I HAVE HAD A TERRIBLE DAY. Indulging in a selfie 🀳🏽 #sorry

Me! Coming to you! On the TV! One week πŸ’¦πŸ’¦πŸ–₯

Amazing and brave story from my friend Jess.

Repost from @jbukfiddy using @RepostRegramApp - This photo was taken probably a month or 2 after I was sexually assaulted by a guy who was my friend when I was 21. I see things surface on social media/interwebs a lot about this topic and a lot of nasty things being said. It took me a long time to be able to tell anyone exactly what happened to me because of people like them, people's judgement. I blamed myself for a long time which is the saddest part of all. I thought because I was the one who invited him to my home that it was my fault, but at the end of the day I said no, and he had sex with me anyway. From this happening it took a massive toll on me without me even fully understanding what had happened, I started doing drugs/drinking everyday, I lost a lot of weight and hit 51kg, I had multiple mental breakdowns, anxiety attacks, I even tried to overdose but was unsuccessful, and my trust towards people has always been at nil since - which is something I'm working on everyday. 5 years and 3 shrinks later I am feeling the best I've felt in forever. But I still have days, as we all do. When I finally started telling people about my experience I had a couple of people not take it seriously or put judgement on me. I'm not looking for sympathy by this I'm trying to explain to people that this is a VERY common occurrence. I'm not ashamed to talk about it anymore nor should anyone else be. This experience has given me a greater understanding of why people are the way they are, the ability to put myself in other people's shoes, understanding mental illness. It has given me the ability to filter out people I don't want in my life and most important of all it's given me so much strength. So next time you hear or read a story like this, maybe stop the victim blaming. #sexualassault #victimblaming

Jivamukti πŸ™ŒπŸ½

'DEEP REDS! A BIT MOODY AND A BIT FUN! TROPICAL VIBES! NO ROSES, THEY'RE DEPRESSING, WEIRD STUFF! HAVE FUN WITH IT, IM NOT CONTROLLING! I DON'T CARE HOW MUCH IT COSTS! I'LL BE BACK IN TWENTY MINUTES!!!' -me at the florist

β€ͺFran Drescher and Pamela Anderson - incredible powerhouse women, intelligent, beautiful and both triumphant survivors of violent sexual assault. β€ͺKeep creating, surviving, living and loving!‬ #internationalwomensday

Wet weather laundry prison, shadowy and bright. Actually so nice πŸ‘™πŸ‘˜πŸŒ§

Please read my DEBUT article on THE GUARDIAN about @imacelebrityau - It's More Than Shadenfreude and I Can't Stop Watching.

Link in my bio.

I'm really proud of this one, I promise you'll laugh! #imacelebau #imacelebaustralia #imacelebrityau πŸ˜·πŸ€’πŸ€πŸŠπŸœπŸ•·πŸ

Full moon, when the gravitational pull of the moon is so strong it pulls the at the oceans and makes the tides rise. Your body is 86/87% water and so is your brain. During a full moon, water is pulled to the top of your head, like a tide and it makes you feel... crazy, intense, wild.
I think @sholavirdi taught me this at a full moon dinner when all these people were talking over each other and really excitable. πŸŒ•

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