This is so tough for me. Almost everyone I have ever met has told me "I thought you were stuck up" or "I didn't think I'd like you" at one point or another. It still picks at my brain. I've been called weird and that I care too much. I've also been called selfish and crazy. It's hard to find a happy medium within your own self let alone shutting all of the outside voices out. I'm trying to learn but it's a huge process.