My high school sweetheart passed away yesterday. You might know him, Luke Perry, Dylan from 90210. I pined over him. I modelled myself into a girl he might like. Sadly, Dylan and I never met. My point- I’ve spent too much time trying to figure out what the world wanted from me and then attempted to show up as that. Its sad, but it’s what we all do. Our fancy personalities are made up, based on how the world has and does respond to us . That’s good news. If personality is malleable you get to shape your avatar. You decide how you want to show up. What ever you are, be a good one.