@16days_photography // things are so backwards that somehow being called sexy, being flat out called an object of sexual desire, is supposed to be a compliment? like it’s some once-in-a-lifetime honor to have aroused you, a stranger. I die a little inside like this tree when this happens. not really, because I have self respect and healthy self esteem, but seriously this is not a fucking compliment. I’m a living, breathing, thinking, earning my second doctoral degree-ing, empathetic, loving human being NOT YOUR OUTLET FOR SEXUAL DESIRES. human, not object. human, not object. it’s so easy to keep it to yourself. easier than sharing, actually. if you wouldn’t say it to your daughter/mother don’t say it to me.