not_ur_bby_grl not_ur_bby_grl

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⚑️🌹πŸ”ͺ  Student, writer, lover, human

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Just a gentle reminder that it is OK to remove yourself from any situation which makes you feel uncomfortable/ anxious/ triggered. This includes (but is not limited to) relationships, friendships, classes and workplace environments. Self care and preservation should always come first. Today I walked out of a class because I wasn't comfortable with the topic of discussion. Usually I would stay passive or silent in a situation which made me feel less than ok, but I'm learning to put my mental health needs first. Instead of sitting through a discussion which would leave me feeling anxious all week, I exercised some self care and took myself home. I know it's not easy to do, but looking after you is way more important than worrying about missing a class or potentially hurting someone's feelings because you don't wish to partake in a damaging conversation/ situation/ relationship. Side note: if you do want to engage in a discussion or broach a potentially harmful topic within a presentation, narrative, assignment or otherwise- please include censor/trigger warnings. It's the kind thing to do.

one year closer to death AND I got these funky shoes to celebrate 🌹πŸ’₯❣️ thnx u bbys πŸ”₯ @am666ny @majagasiorek @acoria__ @h0odrat

Ha666py Bir666day

work appropriate

don't look at me with that tone of voice

bury me in this (im not kidding)

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autumn pro tip- match your coffee with your coat to reach a new level of aesthetic pleasure πŸ’₯

she's whiskey in a tea cup

happy ziggys bday ⚑️

u can look but u can't touch

*sips drink and judges you*

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