"Are you ready for this?" I asked when I saw him. "Damned straight," he said.
He was bluffing, but wasn't I bluffing too? Wasn't everyone dead terrified on their wedding day? - just read this passage in a great novel I'm reading about Ernest Hemingway and his wife.
I wonder what it is that makes us so afraid to fully commit to love....
Because that's what a wedding is.
A decision to commit to one path. One heart. One love. 💖
Were you terrified on your wedding day?
Or, do you imagine you would be when the time comes for you?
Mike and I got married just the two of us in our home and I was nervous the week leading up to it.
I share so much of my life online, this was my little private secret, so no one knew my plans or my feelings except my best friend.
But, I prayed about the fear and trusted I would be guided.
On the morning of our wedding, I woke up feeling incredible peace.
That was my sign.
A Course in Miracles says true love brings peace. Now, us humans can certainly work ourselves up into so much fear around love.
But, if you find someone that makes you feel equally excited as quietly peaceful and content, commit, whether it's marriage or a primary partnership within a polyamorous relationship or whatever works for you.
I believe that the best love and growth happens within the container of a committed romantic relationship. Do you?
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