mybigfatqueercatlife mybigfatqueercatlife

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Samm Newman  feelin' 22 β™“ radical fatty πŸ• queer & in love πŸ³οΈβ€πŸŒˆπŸ‘­ intersectional feminist πŸ’ͺ🏻 endo warrior πŸŽ— BD/BPD/GAD/MDD πŸ’Š cat mom 🐱🐱

My #WCW is my beautiful, perfect, and radiant girlfriend. (She is also my woman crush every day, but that's probably made obvious by the fact that she is my girlfriend πŸ˜‚.) She is my favorite human in the entire world. She inspires me each and every day to be someone better for her, and for myself. She is so incredibly smart and funny, and I love spending every moment I have thinking about her beautiful smile. She makes me so happy, but even more importantly, she makes me feel so safe and so secure, so loved. She is my very best friend. She has an enormous heart and I love her for all of the things she does for me and for others. She is so genuine and selfless, and an example for me every day of the kind of person I want to grow and work to become. I can only hope that some of her goodness and light will rub off on me as we continue on this journey together. She is so thoughtful and goes out of her way to make me feel so special. She is always my favorite kiss and my favorite hug. I know that I have been more than fortunate in spending what time we have together, but I am admittedly so very greedy, and my highest of hopes is that I will spend my whole life by her side. It is so frustrating because I don't think there will ever be words, not now, not ever, that will ever fully explain to her or anyone else the magnitude of her importance in my life, or of my appreciation of what an amazing human I get to love. All I can say, in summary, is that these last 8 months have been the greatest privilege of my entire life, and that I love her, not with my whole heart, but with entire oceans. ❀ #girlfriend #babe #mybabe #ilovehersomuch #anniversary #121416 #8months #comingsoon #love #queerlove #queer #lesbian #couple #beautiful #perfect #womancrusheveryday

I'm adorable, though. πŸ’πŸΌβ€β™€οΈπŸ’πŸΌβ€β™€οΈπŸ’–πŸ’– #queer #fatmermaid #snapchat #fat #fatbabe #bath #facemask #adorable #effyourbeautystandards #pizzasisters4lyfe #fatty

Bath bomb and sea mineral face mask? Don't mind if I do 😍😍

So it's been almost a year since I was diagnosed (officially) with a disease I had had for SIX years undiagnosed due to medical fatphobia. I had an exploratory laparoscopy, where I was diagnosed with stage 1 (and 2 in some areas) endometriosis. It was mostly so controlled due to having been on birth control (which I am on again) for an extended amount of time (which caused a uterine polyp). I had my endo tissue on my organs excised by Dr. Mini in Columbus (who is phenomenal). I also got the Mirena IUD put in, but it was a nightmare. I struggled with recovering and internal pain for a long time. But finally in early February, I started to feel better and have been on the upswing ever since. I am so thankful for that surgery. Chances are that I will need more of those in my lifetime, even after a hysterectomy one day. There is no cure for this disease and it still affects me from time to time. But if it were not for birth control, I could not imagine the state my life would be in. Anyways, I kept updates on my scars/incisions for the first 2 weeks and thought I'd give an update. They healed SO well and are barely even noticeable. I had robotic surgery with internal stitches and glue externally. I also had an internal pain pump for the first 2 days following recovery that we removed on our own. It was pretty cool and also gross to remove, lol. #endowarrior #endowhat #endometriosis #1in10 #surgery #scars #incisions #healing #warrior #survivor #endowontendme #endendoforme

πŸ’πŸΌβ€β™€οΈπŸ’πŸΌβ€β™€οΈπŸ’πŸΌβ€β™€οΈ #transformation #precious #fetusme #adorable #gloup

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Meeting you was one of the best days of my life, @bettywho! Can't wait to see you again in August! πŸ˜™πŸ’– #bettywho #whocrew #whothefuckisbettywho #thevalley

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