#ItsTrue | If you are mostly one aspect, and not the other, you will experience an imbalance. And I know this is not going to resonate with some people when I say this, but imbalance creates disharmony.
Disharmony isn’t all bad, as long as you don’t mind taking the bad with the good, but disharmony can be taken to extremes, and turn into a rollercoaster. One day you’re happy and life is fantastic, the next, you’re down in the dumps. Then the next, you’re excited and on edge, then the next, you’re tired and have no energy. Some people love living life this way, but again it does cause an imbalance. When you are more masculine, and you’re not as concerned about people’s feelings, and take action before thinking, you are like a bulldozer, just plowing people down as you go through life. You always get what you want, regardless of the expense and hurt it causes others. When you are more feminine, you may be overly concerned about people’s feelings, and think too long before making decisions. You stand back and let others lead the way, and probably don’t ever get what you want.
There’s a strength and power in both aspects. When you are able to combine both, and know which one you are utilizing at the time, you’re better able to handle most situations that are thrown at you in life.