21 today🎈🎈, finally legal, been writing until my hands give up before my mind does, had a thought....they say what we see, our physical sight is influenced by our experiences and memories. Even when looking at the same view, our minds will eliminate and highlight what it deems necessary. All that to say we literally don't see the same things, so we won't learn or love in the same ways. True love is learning, if you love someone learn about their capacities, their abilities, their limits and fears, let that sit with you. No textbook love, don't come with the same blueprint you use for everyone, that's cheap.