🕊⚓️ REFUSE TO SINK ⚓️ 🕊
Be Tough • Push through• Don’t Give Up •
Suck it up • Get over it • Be a Winner•
We all have these talks with ourselves daily. The little voice saying you aren’t good enough... you aren’t doing enough... you’re a loser... you need to be more of this and less of that... push through the pain you’re acting like a baby... don’t show emotion... you will amount to nothing if you don’t win this... Sometimes these negative voices take over and beat us down so low that we don’t think there’s a way out. We feel safe and secure when we are winning but losing hurts a lot more than winning feels good. Losing means we failed or at least makes us feel like a failure. So many people internalize their guilt, pain, and shame. Listen to me when I tell you that YOU ARE ENOUGH. Your sport/career doesn’t determine your value and worth. This was just a vehicle to get you where you need to be. It’s just a chapter. We are not perfect. We all fall short and that’s why we must forgive ourselves and know that what we truly have to offer has nothing to do with our careers. Our identity is in the way that we give and receive love.
Find your source of love. Find your purpose. When I say find these things I don’t mean find another career to once again lose your identity in. I mean find your soul and your heart. Find a strong foundation built with solid character. Know WHO YOU ARE inside and out not attached to anything. By refusing to sink you are challenging yourself to be vulnerable, open, emotional, transparent, courageous, taught, changed, and loved. REFUSING TO SINK doesn’t mean being independent & tough. It doesn’t mean you don’t need help and can do everything by yourself. It means you are ready to open your arms wide and allow love to flow through. We aren’t meant to live this life alone it’s meant to be shared. By doing this you can affect so many lives just by giving a few moments of your time to show others that they are valued and worthy. Trust the process. Change is inevitable don’t let it discourage you. It’s catapulting you into your destiny 💫🕊 #loveistheanswer #trusttheprocess #heart #refusetosink