I treat everyone equally until someone I love or myself are treated poorly. I have lots of love to give, if you treat me with respect, you will receive it back.
There are a few people that don't understand my method of dealing with difficult individuals, let me explain: My method is fairly simple much like baseball; 3 strikes & you're out. Some may think this is harsh, but this is my life that is being affected. Yes, I believe people can change, but you only have 3 chances to prove yourself to me. If you fail, you are cut from my life. I am sorry to be blunt, but honestly I don't want to deal with the mess. So if you ever have wondered why I may not associate myself with a specific person, there IS a reason behind it. I want to clarify I do have patience & can take a joke. I just wanted to voice a few of my opinions:
Respect: we all have our differences, but you have the ability to control yourself & be respectful to people. I have dealt with many terribly uncomfortable situations. The world is a crazy place, but we can make it better by treating people with kindness & respect. Although if someone disrespects you or a loved one, I completely understand why you may distance yourself.
Openness & privacy: I want to be approachable & accept new people into my life. Although if I confide myself in you, don't take it lightly. I am trusting you with ME. Not every tale of mine needs to be shared; a one-on-one experience, a casual talk or even a simple Snapchat.
Time: is a gift to me, please don't make me waste it. I don't enjoy changing plans & waiting on your late arrival or response. I completely understand if you've made plans or uninterested, just don't continue to drag me along & keep my hopes up. If you're my friend, you can be straight up with me. I always try to give an honest answer, even if it may be difficult to say.
I want you all to live your life & be happy, strive everyday to be a better person & impact this world in a positive way. Even for the ones I don't always agree with or for the few people I no longer want to contact. I only hope you can open your mind & realize; your thoughts & actions affect people. Sorry for my late night rant.