Narcissistic Personality Disorder SUCKS! It’s the kind of disease that not only effects the host, but can destroy anyone who tries to love them. It’s also a covert disease, as it can be hard to identify, unless you get close enough to the person who has it. And, by the time you’re in that deep, they’ve already identified you as “narc supply", + unless you jump ship, you’re in for a bumpy ride.
And, don’t think because you broke it off, that they’re just going to let you go. Oh no! They’ll do things like claim they’ve been diagnosed with a “disease” (like diabetes), to pull on your heart strings, + keep you in their life. If you choose to accept their offering, be prepared to be punished for ever thinking of leaving. These punishments can be things like the silent treatment or, cheating on you with someone new. It’s during this stage that victims of narcissists become really effected, + their self worth, confidence, + belief what is true, deteriorates.
If you finally call them on their stuff, in such a way where they can’t even begin to lie their way out of it, they will discard you (for the time being anyway), + start flaunting the new “narc supply”, in front of everyone to make up for their bruised ego. And of course the new supply has no idea of who + what she’s dealing with, as she is in the love bombing phases, wanting to trust him completely.
When you are really strong enough to walk away from the narcissist, + you’ve let them know you know that they’re a liar + cheater, among other things, keep walking, + don’t look back. Don’t bother telling the new victim(s) about who + what he is, because he’s got her blinded by his “attention". And she’ll only see you as a threat to her new found happiness, instead of someone who doesn’t want to see her go through the same thing, albeit her own version. Telling her may also make her, + her “tribe” attack you, instead of listen. Which is a shame, because they really should be protecting her from him, + not shooting the messenger. #goodluck #truthsucks #honeyko
So, if you’ve realized that you’re “in bed” with a narcissist, get out, + stay out, as this is the ONLY way you’ll know peace again. ~ ✌🏽➕🖤