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So true. If you think about the "heroes" in our society you kinda have to wonder how they got there. Some people do some messed up things to others to get to the top. I have seen it myself (including some people who are on top right now with their "Muslim fame")

Teaching ma baby how to belly dance 😭😭😭

I'm currently 60 since I've passed my cultural expiration date for marriage. Only reason right now I'm hoping I get married by 26 is so I can be under my husband's health insurance before I'm kicked out of my dad's lolll 😭 #MarriageMotivation

We all use to unanimously agree on many topics on Islam. But in today's world when you speak on Islamic facts Muslims will still be angry or disagree. My videos are to REMIND, not discourage. You know the ummah is corrupted when even reminders of Islam angers people. I remind to even remind myself cause I too have gone astray at times. Facts don't matter anymore because feelings seem to be more important to people. It sucks that as a Muslim, I'm not only scared to speak about Islam in front of nonMuslims but Muslims too. People say I'm brave to say certain things cause Muslims have normalized many haram things to be halal, but let me tell you what gave me that courage. Prophet Noah(pbuh) within the 600 years he spoke about One God, only 4 people followed, those 4 people were poor and were farmers who lived a humble life while the rest of the society laughed and mocked him. When he finally gave up and was told by God to build a ship, those who mocked him would defecate on his ship to disrespect him. I think of all the prophets in the past who was threatened to be killed and was the ONLY ONE to speak about one God. And then I thought why am I scared for? I should only fear Allah. I'll stick to using my loud voice to express my deep mind.

Al-Fudayl ibn ‘Iyaad said: Adhere to the path of guidance, and do not be affected by the small numbers of those who follow the path. Beware of the paths of misguidance, and do not be deceived by the large numbers of those who are doomed (by following them).
(al-Adhkaar by an-Nawawi (p. 221); ISLAM Q&A)
Abu Dharr said, “The Noble Prophet advised me saying ‘In the path of Allah, do not fear any one who mocks you or discourages you.” (Bihar al-Anwar, vol.71 pg. 360) "And if you obey most of those on earth, they will mislead you far away from Allah’s Path” [6:116]. "The people will see a time of patience in which someone adhering to his religion will be as if he were grasping a hot coal.” (sunan al-Tirmidhī 2260)

Just gonna leave this here for any girl who is secretly going through this & need some answers as to why your relationship isn't progressing. It's not you...which im sure that's what he's making you feel like. It's not your fault. He keeps breaking up with you over small things, fighting for no reason, makes you feel dumb, & he cheats on you many times so you feel like you're doing something wrong & can't keep a man. Cheaters cheat many times with you because you've already given him chances to come back after that. Not only does he cheat but the idiot will also lose respect for you for taking him back (not all the time). But once you take him back more than once you are indirectly giving him permission to cheat on you more because you will always be there for him & he knows you ain't going anywhere cause he got you wrapped around his finger...including other women. So let the guy go. He will naturally come back with his sappy stories of how he misses you & he made a huge mistake...ignore it. No one changes themselves for good for another person; he can only permanently change himself when he's alone and by himself. It took me years to understand that I need to stop being the nurse and attracting damaged guys. This ain't "build the man" & I sure as hell ain't gonna try to build you. So ladies, have standards, you are more than just a girlfriend to him, you are wife material. Don't let the idiot allow you to think you have to open your legs in order for him to stay loyal to you. You think the hypocrite gonna respect you after that? Nope. Also please don't go after guys you find attractive & then changing him to how you want him to be. Be with a man who you love just the way he is -- with his minor flaws that you can handle. Also PLEASE stop losing your self-identity to a man & melting into whatever he wants in a woman. I've seen a lot of girls completely cut off all their friends and legit not having a mind of their own cause they are so lustfully in love with a douchebag loll. Totally going off topic but thought I'd give my two cents. I may be young but I been through a lot very early in my age. Comment any questions you have below! Might make a video on it 😊

Just had to put this out there. I don't like the BS of being quiet and pretty (or ugly however you see me) to be noticed and liked by people. Only want to be followed for expressing myself whether you agree with me or not. If you complain that I have too much opinions and tell me to stick to selfies you can go somewhere else. I am not the one to stay quiet and just let people talk cause some think "you're too famous" to reply. Like bye. I'm not famous and I'm not here to accept personal abuse online. Yes, I don't reply to everything but I still acknowledge it. I try my best to speak about taboo or unspoken topics that people don't wanna hear about. If that makes you feel uncomfortable then this page is not for you. Anyways, much love to all those that follow me because of my thoughts and opinions. You da BO$$.

I usually don't follow the popular opinion but that's cause I think for myself and not brainlessly follow the crowd. If you're disagreeing with this video your first thoughts are to write a comment blaming me, calling me judgmental, pointing out my flaws, telling me it's a struggle or saying everyone's hijab and relation to God is diff etc I know, I heard it all. It's still not the point. We all know EXACTLY how the hijab is described in the Quran/hadiths so we can't pretend like showing parts of your hair hanging down the side of your head or showing the front side of your hair is hijab. Let's ADDRESS the point I'm making instead of deflecting to ignore my point. IF you are one of those who do that know that you should STILL keep going and try your best to improve at your own pace because this video shouldn't discourage you from wearing the hijab but encourage you to improve and it's just a reminder cause sometimes even i get so into the fashion aspect of the hijab and honestly my imaan goes really down and I remind myself that I gotta try my best to go back to being more proper. But to those who are encouraging "hijabs" like that need to know how influential you can be cause this side hair coming out with hijab is legit becoming the next trend amongst hijabis and let's be honest you don't wanna be the one taking the sin for everyone who follows your look. Idk but it's just so weird to me when I see a mix of hijab with hair showing. I legit think in my head "wait...am I the only one who sees the hair? Are we pretending we don't see it? Does she not see it? Are we gonna pretend like the hair is invisible?" And I just stay quiet on it but then I see comments of people complimenting the Hijabi's hair (lol so awkward). I guess personally I don't get why hijabis ain't protective over their hair cause my hair is hella nice and I wouldn't want someone to even get a peek cause I can't promise if they won't fall in love with me (lol joke)...but really loll. Just felt the need to point out the obvious that's been happening a lot lately, it isn't to be offensive but truthful...and I guess the truth can hurt sometimes but I gotta call it out like it is. All love though ❤️

When you're struggling in the wind and hoping your brother gets at least one focused photo. Idc if the wind makes me look fat, I've been told im unattractive-ly skinny looking too often loll.

BTW everything I'm wearing is from @veronacollection and I'll be working with them for ISNA. So both me AND my sister will be seeing you guys in Chicago during the 4th of July weekend! I love working for them, the most ethical company I've ever worked for!

@veronacollection
Dress: Mara maxi dress
Hijab: Ridge hijab in the color coffee

Yawl wonder how my sister is a creative writer? It's cause she's got a twisted mind LOL. Her and many other girls who think like her makes no sense to me. Their requirements for their husband is a complete contradiction and maybe that's why God is taking a while letting her meet her match cause he still don't exist 😩😂😭

Happy Mama's day to all the other hard working mothers, including the single fathers who had to be a mother to their children. A huge thank you to my mother who gave me attention when I'd seclude myself from everyone else for most of my childhood days. You've raised your ratchet princess well (loll) & I hope I make you proud everyday ❤️ dress & hijab details will be on another post soon!

Vaaaattup yaaar

This is SO sad. The passion and sadness in this boy's voice gave me chills. I pray he lives to tell the stories and become an inspiration to us all in the future.

Thauban reported that the messenger of Allah said: "It is near that the nations will call one another against you just as the eaters call one another to their dishes." Somebody asked: "Is this because we will be few in numbers that day?" He said: "Nay, but that day you shall be numerous, but you will be like the foam of the sea, and Allah will take the fear of you away from your enemies and will place weakness into your hearts." Somebody asked: "What is this weakness?" He said: "The love of the world and the dislike of death." (Abu Daud)

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