----Men vs Boys--- 🚧 It will always be easy to chase a nice ass and a pretty face. I guess as men, maturity is when you ask yourself is it worth my time, at what cost and what else can she offer? Attraction is of course the initial point of interest. I'll be the first to admit (shallow or not) I've got to be physically attracted to the person I'm with. They don't need to be the hottest thing on IG but...yea I need to be able to look at you and like what I see.
As a young man or woman I encourage people to have their fun and explore, know what's out there, but as a grown man if you're going to have your fun shouldn't we be asking at what cost? What could I lose, what could I be doing instead, who could I be doing instead 🔥, where else should I be, where else could I be? Shouldn't we be spending it investing in ourselves, family, our career, our home?
I'm not saying it isn't ok to have fun when you're older too. I'm just asking, but at what cost, and what distance? For me, I'd suggest to keep your time cause it's precious and just be aware of the one that excites your mind, one that isn't afraid to stand by you when shit hits the fan, one that makes you want to step your game up because you think she deserves the best, the type of woman that makes you hold yourself to a different standard and be a better man because she is a better women.
Shout out to my cousin @dame_bond
For putting me on this video clip
@Regrann from @iamalesharenee
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