You do not need to look a certain way to be adequate in a subset of our population.
If you are 25% body fat, 5’4 and muscular, you are adequate. If you are 4’5, 35% body fat with a little curve and sass to your body, you are adequate. If you are 6ft with 40% body fat and don’t have hips, you are adequate. If you have 10% body fat with an athletic build, you are adequate. Just because a person says they have a butt because it’s “big”, doesn’t mean your smaller butt can’t be called “a butt”. Everyone has a freaking butt. Own your booty no matter how small, how big it is.
My point- your body, your fat percentage, your skin, your hair, how tan you are, your acne, does not hold a scale for how adequate/sufficient you are in this world. There is no scaling how good hearted a person is based on their looks whether they have a body and face that looks like they could be postered on a romance novel or not.
If you are reading this, your heart, your soul, is what makes you.
You don’t need to look like someone else in order to feel skinny, feel thick, feel shredded, feel curvy.
A certain “body type” does not determine how athletic you are, how sexy you are, how beautiful you are, if you can model.
The only thing we were made to do on this earth is to love one another, and ourselves.
Instead of wearing an outfit that you bought because a person who is adequate on society’s disrespectful scale unhappy people came up with, wear your heart. Wear your happiness. Wear your love.
This goes for models. This goes for students. This goes for people who work 9 to 5s, this goes for athletes, this goes for you. You are not better, you are not worse, you are not the same. You are you.
If you want, tag a friend that needs to hear this today, or any day. I believe this is the message that women need to hear from me. I believe it’s my purpose.