People talk about self love all the time. Is actually a term used so frequently that it makes you question your self love. The thing is, it’s easier said than done. Us women have been conditioned to love everyone but ourselves, we are conditioned to take care of everyone else first and then if there is time we can take care of us. Im not gonna lie, im the first one to admit that Im that girl. Always looking out for others, always making sure everyone else is happy and never really stopping to make sure im okay. Even when I feel like collapsing, I still stay strong for others because in my head thats the right thing to do. Until I realized that doing all that doesn’t make me a better person or human being. It doesn’t define me as a woman, it doesn’t mean im better than everyone else. I realized that thinking of me first isnt the end of the world, on the contrary. Ive learned that when Im happy with myself, every around me is better. If im not okay, I cant take care of everyone else. And this is something im working towards every single day and I know i still struggle with it because sometimes i feel a little selfish, but I also know that self love never hurt anyone.
Baby girl, its time to sprinkle some self love on everything you do. Add a little more sparkle to your life and it will spread around like glitter.