I’m a Sapiosexual, let me explain!!
When a man goes on a date, I believe it is proper etiquette that he leaves his phone in the car. Being FULLY present, giving that woman his undivided attention is the most simple yet powerful thing he can do to display his interest.
This has always been easy for me because I’m a sapiosexual.
A sapiosexual is a person who finds intelligence sexual attractive or arousing.
To me, the most intimate feeling in the world isn’t sex....
It’s a deep, transparent, connecting conversation where you can tell a person is in love with your mind. The way you think, the way you understand exactly where that person is coming from and because of that, they have the comfort to share things they haven’t EVER shared with anyone. A physical connection could never do much for me, but one who could stimulate my mind could drive me wild. In my 20’s, the main thing that made it easy for me to focus on building my business and not be physical with a bunch of woman is because it was rare I came across someone who turned my on mentally. No matter how fine she looked, if I wasn’t mentally attracted to a woman there was no way I could share a physical experience with her. I think it would actually be awkward, y’all would just lay there. With the right person, after a nap, conversations in bed can be just as intimate if not more intimate than the sexual act itself.
Learn how to make love to that mind FIRST, and you will be surprised just how much more amazing it will be making love to that body.
Shout out to the sapiosexuals out there.