You Say You Want To Marry Her?
LADIES, if a man is quick to tell you he wants to marry you, be careful.
At hello, instead of bragging to you about what he has, he should be telling you about what's missing in his life.
His actions will tell you exactly how he feels about you AT DAY 1.
Is he trying to win you with excessive company, gifts and dates or is he heavily invested on ways to help you achieve your goals and dreams? With him in your life as a friend, is he adamately helping you to make shit happen? Or not...
Remember, talk is real cheap!!
A man who tells you he believes in you and is always coming up with different solutions to get things done for you is a man who sees value in you. He doesn't mind showing up to earn 1st your respect, your trust then your love! A man who sees no value in himself nor what he can do to improve your life will try to win you over emotionally with gifts, fancy outings and charm. You want a man who believes that a major part of his life's purpose is to help you with yours! So you will never have to ask for his help, encouragment and support. He shows up willingly to encourage you and show you that your dreams are also his dreams. A man who loves you will find ways to make your life better PERIOD. ON HIS OWN! That's called "Adding Value." His actions will force you in a position to say these words to him. "I NEED YOU!" And after you ask him, "Why do you invest so much into me?" He then will tell you, "It's because you're valuable. And I see how my strengths help you with your weaknesses and vice versa. Both of our lives have dramatically improved because of this amazing friendship. We are teammates at life and I would like to marry you so we could become soulmates at life, as one."
If he's not adding value and asking to marry you, he's trying to trap you into saying, "I do" then his chase will be over. It's ALL ABOUT getting better together. It's easy to walk away when it's not your life investment. If he wants you, let him put his whole life into it first. And if he has yet to do that, but is saying "I'm gonna marry you" Run away as fast as you can!