...:::ESSENCE:::... (Pictured: Me doing my first Yoni steam with healing herbs and boiling hot water)
My essence is love and it is sensuality. It is my Souls purpose, to love others without condition, judgment or fear. To love myself fiercely and tenderly. To love every crack and crevice, every imperfection, to love both the light and the darkness. Sexuality is sacred to me, it didn’t used to be. I was taught at an early age that my value was sex, and it then became a currency for me. I lost my ability to say no when I was raped and when I was molested, this, in turn, caused me to lose my ability to say yes. Yes to myself, yes to healthy co-creative partnerships, yes to authenticity and vulnerability. Yes to trust and compassionate communication. Yes to Sacred Sex and a connection to the Divine that cannot be reached on your own.
I believe that sex can heal us. Divine connection with another, a love so pure and yielding, so powerful and potent that it is magic within your bones. Dry bones, brittle skeleton, don’t breathe on it or the fine particles with rise with the wind and float into the ether. Nourish those dry bones, get aroused, get wet, melt into each other.
What does Sacred Sex mean to you? Have you experienced it?
I believe it is a co-creation, an unfolding of two vessels revealing only raw soul and the magic of spirit. It’s eye gazing and touch, lots and lots of touch. There are many more erotic places on the body besides the genitals. It is communication and telling your partner exactly what turns you on and what doesn’t. It is wet lips and undulating hips, it is devious smiles and screams of pleasure heard for miles. It is being deep inside your lover without porn star thrusting, not moving at all, just teasing and allowing time for her to get wet and for you to ache for her so badly that you are so ravenous with desire that you explode when you climax. It is in this place that a Sacred Union can occur, de-programming everything that we’ve been indoctrinated with by a society that wants us to worship money instead of Women, a society that values fucking over making love .... continued in comments 👇🏽👇🏽