#Throwback |Build in Relationships..#Loveoneanother ,#HAPPYFATHERSDAY! " Why are relationships so hard today? Why do we fail at love every time, despite trying so hard? Why have humans suddenly become so inept at making relationships last? Have we forgotten how to love? Or worse, forgotten what love is?
We’re not prepared. We’re not prepared for the sacrifices, for the compromises, for the unconditional love. We’re not ready to invest all that it takes to make a relationship work. We want everything easy. We’re quitters. All it takes is a single hurdle to make us crumble. We don’t let our love grow, we let go before time.
It’s not love we’re looking for. Even in our deepest silences. We spend time together, we don’t make memories.We don’t believe in the beauty of predictability because we’re too blinded by the thrill of adventure.
We immerse ourselves in the inconsequentials of the city life, leaving no space for love. We don’t have time to love, we don’t have the patience to deal with relationships. We’re busy people chasing materialistic dreams and there’s no scope to love. Relationships are nothing more than convenience.
We look for instant gratification in everything we do; the things we post online, the careers we choose. We want the maturity in a relationship that comes with time.But apparently, nothing’s worth our time and patience...not even love.
We’d rather spend an hour each with a hundred people than spend an entire day with one. We believe in having ‘options’. We’re ‘social’ people.We’re greedy. We want to have everything. We don’t want to bring out the best in that one person. We want them to be perfect.
We’re a scared generation. Scared to love, scared to commit, scared to fall, scared to get hurt.
Technology has brought us closer. So close that it’s impossible to breathe. Our physical presence has been replaced by texts, voice messages, snapchats and video calls. There’s nothing left to talk about. We believe we’re not meant for relationships. Even the thought of it is scary. We walk away.
We don’t even value relationships anymore. We let go of the most wonderful people for ‘the other fishes in the sea! "