Now the big question is are we going to settle in Germany for ever?
As many of you, I think kids need a certain frame, structure and rituals to feel safe and at "home". But I don't think they need a certain house, place or a kindergarten to have this frame. I believe it comes from the parents and the surrounding (friends and family). If the parents or the surrounding are stressed kids feel it and become nervous, stressed and difficult (I actually believe this is not very different with living in one place only). Kids are so connected with the parents and don't judge on the situation in the way we know as adults. They just live the moment.
As we are free to do what we want we can go any where we want to at any time. This can make us insecure as parents as well when there are a lot of options and we don't know what we truly need. What is going on with us right now is a break. A break in a "stable surrounding" (the place where our parents live) to find out how our life is going on. The best place in the world is not the best place when there are not the best people. We already found a lot of good places and people. Now we need to combine this in our everyday life. And this is going to happen a lot in the next months and years. So now we are taking this pause to get back our "routines" which we're missing a bit (like having food at a certain time, going to bad at a certain time, organizing kids, work and free time). And one day I am sure we will not have one place we call home. There will be hundreds 😍🌍 DEUTSCH:
Jetzt ist die große Frage, ob wir uns in Deutschland für immer niederlassen?
Wie auch viele von euch, denke ich, dass Kinder einen bestimmten Rahmen, Struktur und Rituale brauchen, um sich sicher und "zu Hause" zu fühlen. Und ich denke, dass sie dafür nicht ein bestimmtes Haus, Platz oder Kindergarten brauchen. Ich glaube viel mehr, dass es auf die Eltern und das Umfeld (Freunde und Familie) ankommt. Wenn wir als Eltern oder das Umfeld unsicher, unruhig oder nervös sind, dann fühlen es die Kinder ähnlich (ich denke, dass das nicht anders ist, wenn man an einem Ort lebt). TEXT WEITER IM OBERSTEN KOMMENTAR 👇👇👇