21 years today since he said 'I do' to loving me and my hair brain ideas, my OCD and anal retentive tidiness, my love of crystals and incense and all things whickety whack, my telling him off for wrecking a brand new magazine by turning the pages before I do, and for not saying anything but 'yes dear' when I decide that 1am is a totally appropriate time to rearrange the lounge room. 21 years of waking me with hot coffee and a kiss and then running for dear life before I properly wake up, of putting up with my refusing to fill the car with petrol in case some petrol gets on me and someone accidentally sets me alight and 21 years of listening to me worry about the world at 2am and then rolling him over because he is snoring. Years of pushing me in a wheelchair and helping me shower when my legs weren't working, holding me when the pain gets too much, caring for our three beautiful kids when I fell apart and loving me through it all. Damn I found myself a keeper, a most magnificent human and the kindest soul. I am so beyond blessed to call you my husband @surfingcarl Happy 21st wedding anniversary carlostomy antostomy stackenhousen. Thankyou for making my heart beat fast and I promise to make the next 21 years a little less ummmm interesting. I love you!!!!