life_as.lou life_as.lou

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𝕃𝕠𝕦  ▫️ Nuclear Engineer ▫️ Gay Single Dad ▫️ Fathers’ Rights Advocate ▫️ Occasional Writer πŸ“š β€’ πŸ–Œ π…π’π­π§πžπ¬π¬ | 𝐖𝐨𝐫𝐀 | πƒπšπππ² π‹π’πŸπž 𝐅𝐨𝐫 𝐭𝐑𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐭𝐑 𝐨𝐟 𝐦𝐒𝐧𝐝...

Bronze over Gold... always!

No name... just framed...

Perhaps one of the most debilitating things I did to myself was to consider myself a victim in every challenge I've ever faced. The moment I allowed self pity to control me, I lost my ability to recognize my own flaws and learn from them.
It is easy to find blame elsewhere... sometimes there's plenty to go around, but failing to notice my own contributions made overcoming these problems twice as hard. It might not be the greatest lesson out there, all I’m saying is... once I removed those curtains... it was finally bright again.
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Think about it and reclaim your ability to overcome it all.

I had a record hour-long conversation with someone I don’t really talk to… Babies have been growing up though… so have I too?
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A few years have now gone by, I could see that from the start. Much to say, much to share, but some things… well, remain the same.
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I will never understand how β€œunimportant is a dad”, or how could kids β€œforget about them over time”.
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It’s not to show someone in a bad light, or point fingers in one direction. This is just the way things are, and this is just my reflection.
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I knew this was something I’d eventually have to do, you could say it’s a step in the right direction.
Babies have been growing up, that much is true... Now overall... I think I have done too.

My favorite color is red...🍷
In honor of India’s historic decision to decriminalize homosexuality, I’m wearing rainbow undies sent to me by @underwearexpert who sent me this box to post back in APRIL!! 😩
In all fairness tho, no one told me being a nuclear engineer would swallow me whole for months at a time!! Sorry @underwearexpert!!
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Anyway, I think my coupon: LOU (for 55% off on your first month’s order) works fine. I say go get your 🌈

Just a thought, just one reflection,
yielding the courage to change directions.
A moment at last, to understand the soul,
guided and not cursed, by some time alone...πŸ“
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We are the masters of our own time, spend it wisely!

At peace, because I let go of the resentment I had for past relationships to finally notice and work on my own flaws.
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In control, because I stopped blindly following social, religious and family traditions and found my best self in the process.
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Humbled down, by experiences that made me cry, stand up and not take things for granted anymore.
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Loved at last, by starting to take care of the one person that will always be present in my life... myself.
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Happy Labor Day! 😊

Hardcore...
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Been following @wayne_skiv04 on IG, he showed me how to build these bars, he does this insane workout with them. So I said... why can’t I? 😁πŸ’ͺ🏽

4 impossible things:
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I have an ability to accomplish anything I set my mind to.
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I don’t cater to stereotypes, opinions or expectations that bring out a side of me I am ashamed of.
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I find value and fulfillment in my life without comparing myself to others.
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I will decide what impossible means!

Was gonna skip the gym but bae wouldn’t let me in the house till I went so... here I am! πŸ˜­πŸ€·πŸ½β€β™‚οΈπŸ’ͺ🏽
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That’s real love you guys!!

No need to wait for New Years sometimes... I have some new personal goals that I started working on today! πŸ‘ŠπŸ½πŸ’ͺ🏽

Voluntad... ✍🏽

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